Understanding The Love Languages as a tool for becoming a better lover (and citizen). I once dated a man as generous with his compliments...

Has social isolation made you reconsider your loving priorities? Just as CoronaVirus was overwhelming the world, I burst into tears while...

"If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me." W.H. Auden Last year I made a simple, low risk New Year’s resolution: I wo...

I waffle between a sense of admiration for a person who has discovered a kink that brings them joy, yet wonder what horrible event in early

Too often when love ends, the people who adore us will insist we’re still wonderful and the person who left us the idiot. Think again.

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Not every marriage is worth saving. But no marriage deserves to be abandoned during the most stressful point in its lifetime. I recently ...

It doesn't get any better than dating at midlife. Trust me If I were a drinking buddy of ‘Stella Gray’, The Guardian newspaper’s 50 year-...

Sex takes time to learn under the best of circumstances. These are not the best of circumstances.

A virtual lover is no way to learn about loving I once engaged in a protracted texting acquaintance with a man I met online. He was funny...

Oh, beware, my lord, of jealousy! It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock The meat it feeds on. - Iago to Othello A few years ago, b...

When it comes to online dating, will abundant choice lead to love or drive us mad? When I found myself, at 49, suddenly single, I was hel...