"If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me." W.H. Auden Last year I made a simple, low risk New Year’s resolution: I would ask for what I w...

I waffle between a sense of admiration for a person who has discovered a kink that brings them joy, yet wonder what horrible event in early

Too often when love ends, the people who adore us will insist we’re still wonderful and the person who left us the idiot. Think again.

High on love or felled by loss? It's simply temporary insanity I once developed a crush on a married man so consuming I could barely function. He sold Europe...

Not every marriage is worth saving. But no marriage deserves to be abandoned during the most stressful point in its lifetime. I recently became enthralled wi...

It doesn't get any better than dating at midlife. Trust me If I were a drinking buddy of ‘Stella Gray’, The Guardian newspaper’s 50 year-old ‘Midlife Ex-Wife...

Sex takes time to learn under the best of circumstances. These are not the best of circumstances.

A virtual lover is no way to learn about loving I once engaged in a protracted texting acquaintance with a man I met online. He was funny, smart and engaging...

Oh, beware, my lord, of jealousy! It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock The meat it feeds on. - Iago to Othello A few years ago, before I had much of ...

When it comes to online dating, will abundant choice lead to love or drive us mad? When I found myself, at 49, suddenly single, I was hell bent on not lookin...