"If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me." W.H. Auden Last year I made a simple, low risk New Year’s resolution: I would ask for what I w...

The Special Sauce of love may simply be staying fascinated with your partner I used to have a few rules about the men I ‘liked’ on dating sites: no sunglasse...

It doesn't get any better than dating at midlife. Trust me If I were a drinking buddy of ‘Stella Gray’, The Guardian newspaper’s 50 year-old ‘Midlife Ex-Wife...

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Conflict, not compatibility, will tell you what you really need to understand about your partner I’ve done most of my internet dating using the site OKCupid....

Pick (up) on someone your own age I know a talented, vivacious, woman living in Greenwich Village, who creates fixed and ephemeral art installations in New Y...

A virtual lover is no way to learn about loving I once engaged in a protracted texting acquaintance with a man I met online. He was funny, smart and engaging...

Your limbic system is telling you how to love. Listen carefully. I once dated a man who asked me, during our first online conversation, if I was familiar wit...

Dating isn't just for the romantically inclined A few months ago I went to Paris on the Eurostar simply because tickets were so damn cheap. I didn’t go with ...

Can more than two be equals in love? When I started internet dating, I was quite clear:  ”Jealous types need not apply. I like variety.” When I was younger a...

When it comes to online dating, will abundant choice lead to love or drive us mad? When I found myself, at 49, suddenly single, I was hell bent on not lookin...