Body Talk

The Beauty of Body Mapping

Our bodies change. So should the way we explore them. They say if you’ve spent 10,000 hours practicing a particular skill, you’re...

FetLife Lessons

I waffle between a sense of admiration for a person who has discovered a kink that brings them joy, yet wonder what horrible event in early

Masturbation Liberation

I decided early on that God was not so perverted to bless us with orgasms then expect us not to have them.

The Varieties of Orgasmic Experience

"No woman gets an orgasm by shining the kitchen floor." Betty Friedan I had my first orgasm, age 14, staring up at the sky outside my...

Sense & Sexuality

Proust was right: terrain need not be new in order for our experience to be novel The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking...

The Ultrasonic Truth About Squirting

Even Aristotle knew women could squirt Eons ago when I was a medical assistant in a women’s clinic, after we’d locked the doors at the...

How Bondage Might Improve Your Health

Practitioners of BDSM may be more well-adjusted than most The first time I took part in any kind of BDSM play I got a fit of the giggles....

Are You Practicing the Magic Ratio?

Your five a day isn't just about fruit and veg Romanticism has done heaps of harm when it comes to living a successful love life. Yes,...

Speak Your Body Language

On becoming non-verbally articulate The other day a friend of mine was sighing over how too many women strain his patience when it comes...

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