Understanding The Love Languages as a tool for becoming a better lover (and citizen). I once dated a man as generous with his compliments...

I waffle between a sense of admiration for a person who has discovered a kink that brings them joy, yet wonder what horrible event in early

I decided early on that God was not so perverted to bless us with orgasms then expect us not to have them.

Not every marriage is worth saving. But no marriage deserves to be abandoned during the most stressful point in its lifetime. I recently ...

"No woman gets an orgasm by shining the kitchen floor." Betty Friedan I had my first orgasm, age 14, staring up at the sky outside my bed...

It doesn't get any better than dating at midlife. Trust me If I were a drinking buddy of ‘Stella Gray’, The Guardian newspaper’s 50 year-...

Is the one who strays the only cheat? 2018 was my year of dubious honor. The New York Times publish my essay, ‘What Sleeping With Married...

Sex takes time to learn under the best of circumstances. These are not the best of circumstances.

Pick (up) on someone your own age I know a talented, vivacious, woman living in Greenwich Village, who creates fixed and ephemeral art in...

Proust was right: terrain need not be new in order for our experience to be novel The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new...

Even Aristotle knew women could squirt Eons ago when I was a medical assistant in a women’s clinic, after we’d locked the doors at the en...

Practitioners of BDSM may be more well-adjusted than most The first time I took part in any kind of BDSM play I got a fit of the giggles....

On becoming non-verbally articulate The other day a friend of mine was sighing over how too many women strain his patience when it comes ...

Can more than two be equals in love? When I started internet dating, I was quite clear:  ”Jealous types need not apply. I like variety.” ...