I started writing about sex and relationships during a tumultuous menopause. Through dating and pondering, I discovered many people who wanted to talk about the things I did: What constitutes a healthy relationship? What makes sex fun and fabulous now that we're way past 40? Is monogamy necessary to feel loved? How can men and women better understand each other? We are the middle-age relationship disruptors and every day I find another kindred spirit who wants to explore what it means to be a loving human. Join me.